This harness is a simple set of straps which join (with snaps) at several rings in the front and back. It is very adjustable, and while the straps are pretty thin (about a half-inch wide), they aren't uncomfortable. Once you slide it on (like a thong), you can tighten the straps on the sides so that it fits snugly around your hips.
The rings are designed to hold a dildo, like all harnesses. it holds one tightly, and when I wear it I'm able to get a good bit of control for aiming the dildo where I want it to go. As dildo harnesses (for women) go, it doesn't offer the most control or comfort, but it's perfectly acceptable as it is.
Here's where the fun starts, though—it's not just for women! The way the rings are configured in the front, it can accept TWO, um, objects. This opens up a variety of options for dildo/harness play!
When my husband wears it, his dick fits nicely in the lower ring; the ring doubles as a cock ring, so it gives him a bit more stamina as well (which my hubby doesn't particularly need, but we both certainly enjoy the extended time). Then he fits a dildo into the upper hole, which rests against his waist/pelvis, just like it would on a woman. Now he can penetrate me in both holes at once!
Let me tell you, this is a really wonderful feeling. Both of us have fantasized about having a full, real-life menage à trois, but we have never acted on it because of the fear of how it would change (and potentially damage) our otherwise fulfilled relationship. With this harness, we can have the fun of a real three-way without the relational baggage. I love being filled up by my hubby this way.
We've tried it in several positions: with me on my back, the dildo in my slit, and him in my rear; on my knees with him in my puss and the dildo in the back-door; and with him on his back and me riding him cowgirl (or reverse cowgirl) style. All three are awesome! When hubby puts on this harness, I know for sure that I'm in for a wild, multiple-O event.
A couple of times, he has started with just the dildo, then gone to single- or double-penetration after I was good and worked up. This, too, is a great way to put the Menage a Trois to good use; it's like having one partner right after another. He's also positioned it so that the dildo rides roughly across my belly (and clit) while his cock is inside me.
We've also used this harness for some pegging, which hubby is always up for; it's not ideal for that, again because it doesn't give me as much control as I'd like (and, as fun as pegging is, I don't get much direct stimulation from it this way; we plan to remedy that soon, though, by trying out one of the "his and hers" harnesses—but that's a whole other post!). But it's fun sometimes to switch things up right away—using condoms, of course—by going from me poking him to him (double) poking me.
The dildo that comes with it is also pretty good: realistic in shape, and not too big or small for either of us. As with all dildos, your mileage may vary—but the good news is that the Menage a Trois harness can accept any standard-base dildo, so try whatever one you want. It also comes with a selection of rings to accommodate different size dildos and cocks.
Needless to say, we've had a lot of fun with the Menage a Trois harness. I highly recommend it; in my personal rating system, I give it 4 out of 5 "Os" with marks off for the narrow straps.
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